‘Why wasn’t I hired?’ 6 ways managers botch the answer
April 30, 2009 by Sam NarisiPosted in: Assessing the right candidate, Law, Special Report

Whether employers call or write to unsuccessful candidates, one thing is clear: Applicants are more likely to sue if they don’t like what they’re told when they’re rejected — especially now.
Companies most often get in trouble when managers try to sugarcoat the news. In one recent case, a manager was worried about telling an employee she wasn’t the most qualified for a promotion — so instead, she said the employee was turned down because she had young children and “a lot on her plate right now.”
The employee sued the company for discriminating against a working mother. And she won, thanks to her manager’s attempt to soften the blow. (Cite: Chadwick v. Wellpoint, Inc.)
Here are some mistakes HR and managers should avoid to keep out of legal trouble:
- Comparing the qualifications of candidates – Hiring decisions are often somewhat subjective, and an applicant’s lawyer may be able to argue the rejected candidate was more qualified. Specific comparisons should be avoided. If someone presses for the reason they weren’t hired, the best response: “We chose the candidate who was best for this job.”
- Recommending the candidate apply for a different position (unless you mean it) – A common way to soften the blow is to tell rejected candidates their resume will be kept on file, or they might qualify for a different job. But if managers say that when it’s not true, it just gives candidates more opportunities to get frustrated and take legal action.
- Using phrases like “I’m sorry” and “unfortunately” – The company has nothing to be sorry about. Using apologetic language only feeds candidates’ negative feelings and makes them think they’ve been wronged.
- Waiting too long – Significant delays before the news is delivered can allow candidates to build resentment toward the organization. Once the decision’s made, let the candidates know.
- Giving inconsistent explanations – In one case, an applicant sued, claiming she was denied a job because of her age. The hiring manager told her she didn’t have the right experience. But in court, the manager said she was rejected because she was rude in the interview. The judge wouldn’t throw the case out because of the inconsistencies in the manager’s explanation. (Cite: Boyajian v. Starbucks)
- Appearing impersonal – Twitter’s HR manager recently made headlines after she sent a rejection e-mail to a group of applicants. She forgot to use a blind carbon copy — which means every recipient saw the addresses of 185 other people who were getting the exact same e-mail.
How should the bad news be delivered? Most experts say you should avoid giving reasons, even if the candidate keeps asking. The simpler and more professional the letter or phone call is, the better.

May 1st, 2009 at 9:35 am
Interesting information!
May 1st, 2009 at 1:57 pm
And even if you just leave it simple, some candidates don’t get it and keep pestering. I have 3 guys calling me each day “following up” , “has the other guy quit”, or trying to convince me they are the perfect man for the job.
May 1st, 2009 at 3:02 pm
I feel your pain, Angel. I have been directed to send out the following letter/email intially:
We appreciate your interest in employment with and thank you for the time you took to interview with us. While your background and experience have been carefully reviewed, we are continuing our search for candidates who more closely fit our needs.
Again, thank you for your time and interest. We wish you the very best in your job search.
If they persist, I send this:
I’m sorry to say that we are unable to provide any additional information beyond the original letter mailed to you. We wish you the best in a successful job search.
I feel badly about it, but they don’t want me to (and I don’t want to) have that conversation.
June 29th, 2009 at 11:07 am
I agree…it’s difficult when an applicant calls and wants to know why…Brian we send a similar letter. Generally they don’t call back after that but some will call and ask what they can do better next time…that’s a difficult question…how do others handle that?
August 24th, 2009 at 3:37 pm
My sister received a letter from a company she interviewed with and was devastated by the way they worded the letter. She spent a lot of time second guessing herself and her skills and finally mentioned it to me. She thought she was perfect for the job and not being the “best fit” meant that there was something wrong with her. She had a lot of conditions on taking the job; I think that ruled her out and mentioned to her that she may need to be more flexible in the future. I also told her that that type of letter is a carbon copy of many used and not to take offense or take it personally.
October 13th, 2009 at 5:50 am
When my resume gets “rejected” by some company, I truly would like to know why — as in “how could I become better qualified for that position?” — so I can do some self-improvement on my end.
Also, I have never failed to get a job when I mention, during the interview, that I have “no child care issues.” (Apologies to all you parents, but it’s a tough economy and I gotta play hardball sometimes.)